Yeah, I think you lost them after the first paragraph. 😉

I am tinkering constantly with my home setup, but I am lacking the time to set up everything to my liking.

So I am using neither Plex or Jellyfin, I am using Kodi and have a Webdav share available for when I am away on holiday. 😬😁

But then I am only sharing with my closest family in my home network. Somehow it seems everyone is providing a streaming service for half the neighborhood and the remote family (or possibly a polycule with the drama associated, IIRC).