I like it so far. The web interface is pretty solid and Jerboa is serviceable, though missing some features that I would call crucial to the experience. I can’t fault the developers at all though, as it’s like two dude to my knowledge. The reddit API thing convinced me to run my own instance for friends.
I’m hopeful lemmy takes off and sees a larger adoption as well, I think that putting the internet back in the hands of individuals is super important as there has been way too much aggregation of services for like the past decade IMO.
Might want to check out addy.io. It’s a managed service, but I think it supports your use case.